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Home » Home Organization » Productivity » Time Management » Why You Should Say No and No Statement Examples to Save You Time

Why You Should Say No and No Statement Examples to Save You Time

Last Modified: December 20, 2023 Sabrina Quairoli This blog uses cookies. It also has affiliate links. We earn sponsored content income.

Many people have time management issues. You may have to say no to some of the requests to make time in your daily schedule. This post talks about the benefits of saying no and examples of how to say no to free up your time and energy for other important tasks.

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You don't need to lie or give people excuses for why you are saying "no" to their request. You have the right to want to do something; if you don't, you can refuse. But how do we do that without feeling guilty or upset that we are hurting someone's feelings?

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  • The Benefits of Saying No 
  • Questions To Ask Yourself Before Saying No
  • Write a no-statement list.
  • Saying "no" polite examples

The Benefits of Saying No 

Did you know there are benefits to saying no? It's not just that it gives you your time back. It also gives you the freedom to make your own decisions in your life. It empowers you to move beyond the demands in your life to a place where you can control what happens in it.

Below are the benefits of saying no to value your time.

  1. It allows you to value yourself.
  2. Saying no helps you balance out your mental health.
  3. Create more self-esteem and confidence.
  4. It creates a better work-life balance when you create boundaries.
  5. Allows you to add more personal life tasks you love to your calendar.
  6. It will help you be more honest with others.

Questions To Ask Yourself Before Saying No

Ask yourself these questions when you are approached with a request to help you determine if you want to say no.

  1. Will you need to give up something else to do this new request?
  2. How long will this new request take, and can you do it?
  3. Do you fully understand the request? Do you need more information?
  4. Am I the right person to do this request?
  5. If I do not do the request, will it matter in the future (one week from now, a month from now, or a year from now)?
  6. Will this task continue if I say no?
  7. What's in it for you?
  8. Will you have the energy to do the task?
  9. When will I do these new tasks?
  10. How do you feel about the request? Does it feel uncomfortable? Do you feel pressured to do it? Knowing these feelings will give you more direction if you want to say no.
questions to ask yourself before saying no

If any of these questions result in a resounding "No," take action using the example statements below that closely relate to your situation.

Write a no-statement list.

Now that you can see the ample benefits of saying no and the questions you can ask yourself before saying no, you may want to create no-statement responses to empower you when a request arises.

Write down three or four predetermine in your own words 'no' responses that are sincere sentences to use in the future, especially if you haven't said any before. Here are examples of saying no politely.

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Saying "no" polite examples

To feel more comfortable saying no, start with small, unimportant requests that add to your workload. Start by saying no to the small requests from kids and family members.

When you are ready to 'say no' more often, check out these examples below and create an arsenal of no statements to help you.

Saying no to your boss statement examples:

Polite ultimatum: “Saying yes to this means I have to say no to something else...what tasks are more important?”

A request that doesn't fit in your day: "Thank you for thinking of me. Unfortunately, I am at capacity right now and cannot give the project 100%."

Unrealistic deadline: "I would love to help, but given my other work, I won't be able to look at this ... until ..... (next week, next month, etc..)

Saying no, but still helping out statement examples:

“Thanks for thinking of me though I can't help you now. May I help you find someone else?”

"Now isn't a good time for me. If my schedule frees up, I will let you know."

"I've done that a lot already; let's give someone else a chance."

"That's not right for me; let's look at something else."

Saying no, but thank you statement examples:

“I think your suggestion is great; sorry, I can’t participate now.”

“I’d love to come over, but I must decline. Thank you for thinking of me."

"I'm not taking on any other work right now. But thank you for the offer."

"Thank you, but I'm good. I appreciate the offer."

A positive statement, then a no statement, ending with positive statement examples:

Saying a positive statement, then a no statement, and ending with a positive statement works nicely.

"Thank you for the invite; I appreciate it. However, I won't be able to make it. Please invite me next time!"

"Wow, this offer is a great opportunity. However, I must decline. Please consider me for the next project."

For people who don't like the word no.

You may need to be more brutally honest with them if they are persistent. Try this statement, “If I take on another task, I wouldn’t be able to complete my tasks for my ________________. I'm feeling overwhelmed right now."

Or you can be even more honest, "I've been too busy at work lately. I will have to decline this time to be able to take care of myself."

If the request is too personal, you can say, "To respect my privacy, I will have to decline the offer."

Still feel nervous about saying no; get an accountability buddy.

If you feel nervous about how to start saying no, ask a friend or family member to be your accountability buddy. This is your go-to person for questions on what to say to the request the other person is approaching you with. This person can be your sounding board to determine your decision on a request. It will help immensely until you feel more comfortable saying no.

Whatever you decide to do or not do, be sure you have an honest reason for not wanting to do something. Having healthy boundaries is your right as a human being; understanding your boundaries will help others understand you. Try them out and see if they help save time and your sanity. I hope this post helps improve your quality of life and manage your time more effectively.

Visit these posts from other experts that will help you say no in your busy life.

How to Say ‘No’ To Others (Without Feeling Bad About It)

And, How to Say No: Guide for Busy People

How to Stop Saying Yes When You Want to Say No

How (and When) to Say No to the Boss

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  1. Deb Lee says

    March 10, 2023 at 4:56 pm

    I love all the examples you shared and that many of them included "thank you." Saying no isn't always easy but if you pair with a gratitude, it's often received well, and can make it easier to actually say the words out loud.

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  2. Diane N Quintana says

    March 09, 2023 at 3:17 pm

    Sabrina, this is fabulous. I am a people pleaser and have found myself buried under tasks from time to time because I found it so hard to say "NO". Suggestions of how to say 'no' are always in need for others, like me, who have a difficult time with this. I admit, though, I am better at it. I look at offers that come to me now differently. I ask myself what will I have to sacrifice to make room for the task that I am considering. That usually helps me back off. I also remind myself that I have the freedom and the right to say no without explanation. I figure 'no' is a complete sentence and I don't have to justify my reason for saying it.

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  3. Julie Bestry says

    March 06, 2023 at 2:16 pm

    I'm a huge believer in the importance of saying no to things that aren't a good fit for your schedule or your values. I love that you positioned the different aspects and situations of saying no, because of course it's different saying no to your supervisor vs. your client vs. a family member. I've always been good at a "political no" where I can make it seem less like a rejection and more like a way to show respect to the other person, such as "Oh, your project is so wonderful that I'd hate to give it anything but my full attention, and in the foreseeable future, I wouldn't be able to honor that commitment."

    Interestingly, I got SO good at saying no that it became my default, and in 2022 I had to make a conscious effort to say yes to opportunities because I was guarding my boundaries a little too well. I feel like I'm in a sweet spot now, but we really do have to know our "why" for our responses, even if we're keeping it to ourselves.

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  4. Linda Samuels says

    March 06, 2023 at 10:23 am

    You provided valuable "no" statements and solid thought processes for deciding based on a request.

    Why is it so hard for us to say "no?" Sometimes we'd rather inconvenience ourselves than hurt someone else's feelings. Or, we have no sense of boundaries, which you mentioned.

    I love your responses, but one of my favorites is, "Thank you for thinking of me. Unfortunately, I am at capacity right now and cannot give the project 100%."

    And then there is this piece of advice that I've heard and love... No is a complete sentence. When appropriate, you can say no without explaining.

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  5. Jonda S Beattie says

    March 06, 2023 at 8:20 am

    I loved the way you divided up your "no" answers. I have started using, “Thanks for thinking of me though I can't help you now. May I help you find someone else?” quite a bit. This is often a response I give to a potential client when I feel their project will take too much out of me.

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  6. Seana Turner says

    March 06, 2023 at 6:23 am

    I love that you give this nice variety of options for saying no. I was particularly touched by the one about saying, "I'm feeling overwhelmed right now." This is a great one, because it doesn't leave the door open for someone else to push you in spite of your excuse. If gives permission to be honest about how you are feeling.

    I find I'm saying no much more now than I did a decade or two ago. I try and pray about taking on new responsibilities now if I'm feeling conflicted, and that has helped.

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  7. Linda Samuels says

    August 06, 2018 at 9:16 am

    It's essential to learn to say, "no." It's not just about the time aspect, but also about being able to honor our own desires and priorities. One of the things that we often feel uncomfortable with is that we think if we say "no" we'll hurt someone's feelings or we'll appear selfish. Another is that we might not have learned how to say no. That's me. I was brought up to always say, "yes." As you can imagine, that's actually quite dangerous. So I've learned in my adult life how to exercise that "no" muscle. And a simple, "Thank you for thinking of me, but no." works well enough. Or even simpler than that, "No, thank you."

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  8. Seana Turner says

    August 06, 2018 at 7:19 am

    I love the suggestion of how to respond to a boss. This can be especially tricky because you fear that you can't say no. Making the trade-offs evident to the superior is an effective strategy.

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  9. Janet Barclay says

    August 06, 2018 at 6:47 am

    I'm curious about this sentence: "Whatever you decide to do or not do, be sure you have a clear reason why you don’t want to do something." Is it necessary to tell the other person WHY we're saying no, or is it for our own peace of mind, to know we have a valid reason and aren't just trying to avoid something that will take us outside of our comfort zone?

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    • Sabrina Quairoli says

      August 06, 2018 at 8:21 am

      Good question, to clarify, it's not necessary to tell the other person the "why", just to make sure you know the "why."

      Reply
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