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Major Struggles and Easy Solutions for Clutter

Modified: Jan 28, 2026 Published: Jan 18, 2026 by Sabrina Quairoli Visit our "Disclosure Policy and Cookies" page in the menu for details. This post may contain affiliate links. 9 Comments

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Let me guess: you know exactly what needs to be done. You've read the organizing books, watched the videos, maybe even bought the bins. But somehow, your home is still cluttered.

Here's what I've learned after 20+ years of helping people get organized: it's not that you don't know what to do. It's that something is standing in your way.

And that something? It's usually one of these sneaky obstacles that keep even the most motivated people stuck.

Today, I am going to go through major struggles and easy solutions for clutter.

Key Takeaways

  • Many people struggle with clutter despite knowing what to do; the key (affiliate) is identifying hidden obstacles.
  • Common issues include the 'What If' spiral, guilt-based clutter, waiting for perfect conditions, and limited space.
  • Simple solutions involve asking if items can be easily replaced, separating gifts from guilt, starting with small tasks, and reevaluating priorities.
  • Getting organized requires recognizing your main struggle and taking one small action, rather than seeking perfection.
  • Real change starts with a 10-minute commitment to tackle clutter, focusing on what truly matters.
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  • Key Takeaways
  • Struggle #1: The "What If" Spiral
  • How to Combat 'What If' Excuses That Stop You From Decluttering
  • Struggle #2: Guilt-Based Clutter
  • Questions To Ask Yourself to Stop Worrying about Decluttering
  • Gift Myths That Keep You Stuck in Clutter
  • Struggle #3: Waiting for Perfect
  • Quick Wins: 30+ Areas You Can Declutter in Just 15-30 Minutes
  • 15 Organizing Tasks that take 15 Minutes Each Day
  • Struggle #4: Limited Space Dilemma
  • How to Awaken from Clutter Blindness - Part 1
  • How to Take Care of Clutter in the Home {Part 2 of the Awaken to Your Clutter Blindness series}
  • How to Sort Kept Items {Part 3 of the Awaken to Your Clutter Blindness Series}
  • Here's the Truth About Getting Organized

Struggle #1: The "What If" Spiral

"What if I need this someday?" "What if my kids want this when they're older?" "What if I regret getting rid of it?"

Sound familiar? The "what if" excuse is the number one clutter-keeper I see. And it makes sense-we're trying to protect ourselves from future regret. But here's the reality: that future scenario almost never happens.

How to Combat 'What If' Excuses That Stop You From Decluttering

Excuses are ingrained in us from childhood. We create reasons that stop us from taking action. By not taking action, we never move forward from our current situation. The excuse we are talking about today is the 'what if' excuse or 'just in case' excuse.

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The Easy Solution:

Ask yourself one question: "If I needed this again, could I replace it for under $20 in under 20 minutes?" If yes, let it go. You're not throwing away peace of mind-you're making room for peace of mind now.

Struggle #2: Guilt-Based Clutter

Maybe it was expensive. Maybe it was a gift (affiliate). Maybe you should use it, wear it, or display it. So it sits there, taking up space and making you feel bad every time you see it.

This isn't organization-it's emotional baggage with a price tag.

Questions To Ask Yourself to Stop Worrying about Decluttering

We all worry about the next step in various areas of our lives. Getting ready to declutter is no exception. Today, we are discussing a situation I had with a potential client and how her worrying and her family's negativity are preventing her from taking action.

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Gift Myths That Keep You Stuck in Clutter

Getting gifts can be enjoyable. However, when you receive things you do not want or need, you may struggle getting rid of them. Gifts have different purposes. Some may be able to help you. Others may be able to support you. Some may even inadvertently upset you or confuse you.

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The Easy Solution:

Separate the person from the object. That gift (affiliate) represents someone's thoughtfulness, not the physical item itself. You can honor the gesture and still let go of something that doesn't serve your life. And that expensive mistake? It already costs you money. Don't let it cost you space and mental energy, too.

Struggle #3: Waiting for Perfect

You'll organize when you have a free weekend. When you get the right storage solutions. When you have more energy. When life calms down.

But life doesn't calm down. And organizing while waiting for perfect conditions is like waiting to start your car until all the traffic lights are green.

The Easy Solution:

Start with 10 minutes and one small area. Not the whole kitchen; one drawer. Not the entire closet; one shelf. Progress beats perfection every single time, and momentum is built in tiny increments, not giant overhauls.

Don't know where to start? Visit these posts below to get you started with simple task examples that take less than 30 minutes to do.

Quick Wins: 30+ Areas You Can Declutter in Just 15-30 Minutes

We've all been there, staring at the clutter in our homes, feeling overwhelmed by the sheer volume of stuff that needs decluttering and organizing. I've heard from several people, especially those with ADHD, that seeing this clutter is so overwhelming to the point of crippling them from doing anything.

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15 Organizing Tasks that take 15 Minutes Each Day

We are all so busy these days. With work and shuttling kids around taking up most of our day, our organizing tasks are usually lumped in with every other chore. However, organizing doesn't have to happen 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. You need to change your habits and make organizing a priority.

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Struggle #4: Limited Space Dilemma

Have a small apartment or house, downsized to save money, or moved back in with your parents? Odds are, you've accumulated stuff as you've enjoyed your life. And that is normal. No judgment here. I get it, life is busy, we need things now. But forget to revisit those faraway places like the attic, basement, storage unit, or packed garage (affiliate) or guest closet. Spending time figuring out what can go is the key (affiliate) to a less cluttered life. I'm right there with you. I have a small home and have to face the undeniable truth that things must go, especially things I don't use.

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The Easy Solution:

A mindset shift. Take a moment to reflect on what is more important to you. Imagine yourself walking into your home. Asking yourself questions like, "What does my ideal home look like?" "How do I feel when I see my updated or decluttered home?" "Are there areas of my home I have to absolutely have organized, or does it disrupt my day?" These questions will help you pinpoint what your priorities are and where to focus your time and energy.

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Here's the Truth About Getting Organized

It's not about willpower. It's not about having more time or more motivation. It's about identifying what's actually stopping you and creating a simple workaround.

Those "what if" thoughts? Normal, but not helpful. That guilt about things you don't love? Valid, but not a reason to keep them. That's waiting for perfect timing? Understandable, but it's costing you peace right now.

You don't need a complete personality transplant or a month-long organizing sabbatical. You just need to recognize which struggle is your main obstacle and use one simple solution to move past it.

Pick the struggle that resonates most with you. Choose the solution. Set a timer for 10 minutes.

That's it. That's where real change starts-not with a perfect plan, but with one small, honest action that gets you unstuck.

What's your biggest organizing obstacle right now? I'd love to hear what's standing in your way-because once we name it, we can move past it.

Need motivation and accountability? I can help! Stop by my Virtual Organizing Services page to learn more and reach out to me. Make this year your best year ever!

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  1. Julie Bestry says

    January 21, 2026 at 6:55 pm

    You and Seana were in lock-step this week, with both of you focused on the emotional and cognitive obstacles that keep people from making any progress on their downsizing and organizing goals. I think all of the examples you came are apt, though I suspect that the "what if" struggle is more intellectual (for the people who see all the possibilities) and the guilt struggle is for those who anticipate bad feelings without intellectualizing alternatives.

    You've done a super job identifying how to step away from these knee-jerk mindsets and open up the thinking process to make taking actual feel more like a relief than a feared action.

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    • Sabrina Quairoli says

      January 22, 2026 at 9:58 am

      Thanks for stopping by and commenting, Julie! I appreciate it.

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  2. Janet Barclay says

    January 19, 2026 at 11:25 am

    This is a beautifully organized round-up (but I'd expect nothing less from you)! It's valuable information for anyone who struggles with clutter, even a little.

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  3. Diane Quintana says

    January 19, 2026 at 10:07 am

    This is a fabulous digest. I love the way you identified the different obstacles people face and then shared articles filled with great solutions.

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    • Sabrina Quairoli says

      January 19, 2026 at 10:47 am

      Thanks, Diane. I really appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Have a great day.

      Reply
  4. Jonda Beattie says

    January 19, 2026 at 9:37 am

    The mindset shift is huge. I always ask my clients to visualize what they want at the end of a project. What will the space look like? How will they feel when they are in that space? Then remove everything that doesn't match up with that vision.

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    • Sabrina Quairoli says

      January 19, 2026 at 10:46 am

      I love that question. I am a big fan of visualizing the space so my clients and I have a goal in mind. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

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  5. Seana Turner says

    January 19, 2026 at 7:21 am

    I think we are sort of on the same page this week, Sabrina. Tackling the hurdles that keep us stuck.

    Love this mindset shift. The longer I live, the more impressed I am by the power of thought. It can drive us ahead in the unlikeliest of circumstances, or stop us when we really are capable to proceeding.

    Great roundup!

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    • Sabrina Quairoli says

      January 19, 2026 at 8:32 am

      I totally agree about the mindset shift. Thanks for stopping by and joining in the conversation, Seana.

      Reply
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